“It’s Complicated” and other things to stop saying if you want to date better

Dating’s never been easy. And the influx of new lingo has made it all the more complicated. Imagine explaining catfishing to your nan? Or lovebombing? No. Don’t. This will only end badly. Promise. 

In this new wired world, you could theoretically get a date quicker than ordering a takeaway. That’s weird. Because navigating the world of dating’s so damn tricky. But it doesn’t have to be. 

Introducing Inner Circle. It’s the dating app rewriting the rule book to help you date better. 

So let’s make a pact. They want us all to agree to stop saying stuff like:

“It’s complicated.”

Dating can feel like the hardest thing in the world. But it doesn’t have to be.  Think about what you want out of dating from the start. Lots of great dates with like minded people? Maybe.  Something more long term and serious? Perhaps. Either way, find a way to communicate this to potential dates early on. Then let the great dates roll. 

“We need to talk…” 

We’re all adults here. It’s time to just spill the beans and say it like it is. Whether you’re someone who is sociable, foodie or adventurous, let your date know from the start. Faking your personality to impress someone you’re incompatible with, or getting to know someone who likes you for you. We know what we’d prefer   

What helps this is having a ton of like-minded, career-driven members to choose from in Inner Circle’s curated community. All profiles are rich in detail and you can match with other singles based on where you both like to hang out. So it’s easy to find someone you have loads in common with. 

“You look different to your profile picture”

Ask yourself if you’d be friends with this person if you weren’t physically attracted to them. It’s the age-old saying that the best kind of relationships are friendships. Still, it’s better if you actually recognise your date when you meet them in real life. Which is why Inner Circle screens all new members to keep out catfish and scammers. It means you can date with the confidence that your match measures up in real life. 

“I’m not good enough”

Confidence is key. It’s also rather sexy. The reason you’ve got a match is because someone liked the look of your profile. It’s time for you to believe that.  Or just fake it til you make it real at one of Inner Circle’s real-life events. These happen regularly in the coolest places in London and their members rave about them. Seriously. 

So what are you waiting for? If you’re ready to start dating better, register with Inner Circle now.